The question I'm getting is: What the heck is Emotional Intelligence?
It boils down to awareness - awareness of yourself and how others see you. This is a fundamental element in basic mental health, and it's important in the type of psychology we practice. People who are not self-aware simple don't know how other people see them. Well, how could you possibly be effective with a prospect or target market if you don't have any idea how they are seeing you? For that matter, how could you ever maintain a healthy personal relationship?
If you have some amount of emotional intelligence, you will have a sense of how your SMM conversations are going. You'll know what words and statements not to say. You'll have a sens of the other person's values. And, you might see yourself as a facilitator, rather than just a seller of a single product.
So, how do you show your own emotional intelligence?
-- Michael Lovas
http://www.aboutpeople.com